Remember January 1st of this year? Do you remember your hopes and dreams for the new year? If you were like me, you may have thought about some of the crossdressing goals you would like to do for the year. I feel I have made some progress, and I’d like to share with you in the hope that it inspires you to take a fresh look at your own goals for crossdressing.
Speaking for myself as a crossdresser, one of my goals is to shape my body into a more feminine appearance. For this, I need to make some of my parts larger (breasts, bottom, and hips) and others smaller (waist). I wear a corset for crossdressing to make my waist smaller.
Adding to parts is relatively easy. You just buy the part and add it on. Making a part, such as a waist, smaller requires more work. Part of it is from dieting (in my case, losing 50 pounds out of an 85-pound goal), and part of it is squeezing.
My preferred method of squeezing is using a waist-training corset. The reason is that a good waist-training corset withstands much pressure, and the results are amazing. Please follow along to see how to do it.
I think we all would like perfection in our worlds, where everything is going right for us. While we have glimpses of perfection from time to time, our worlds often fall short. In some cases, it falls very short, causing ripple effects into other areas of one’s life. Such was the case for me recently, ripples and all. What can we learn from these crossdressing ripple effects?
As a crossdresser myself, I have had a number of questions about myself and others in the crossdressing community. The questions for others were more to satisfy my curiosity and to gain knowledge. Perhaps these are some of the same reasons why you read my blog. As for the questions I have for myself, they look into my motivations, reasons, and dreams. Why crossdress? I answer some of these questions in this post. Don’t you have some of the same questions for yourself?
Congratulations! You have decided you are ready to buy yourself a ring. Rings are a great way to feminize you hands. As a crossdresser, it is important that your choice compliments and enhances your appearance, rather than drawing undo attention to you. With thousands and thousands of choices, how do you decide upon The One? How do you choose the perfect ring?
Many new crossdressers really don’t know what to think about rings. After all, most men don’t wear rings as a decoration. A wedding band is about the limit. So do you want to venture into the amazing world of rings with me? Read on! In this first of a series about rings, I’ll teach you how to find your ring size. Read More
As a crossdresser, I have overcome several of my fears. My biggest struggle is direct contact with strangers. I have no problem walking among people while dressed, driving, etc. What I do fear is one-on-one interaction. Overcoming crossdressing fear is one of my main goals of this year. This week a sandwich came to my rescue!
You see them at nearly every checkout lane, staring you in the face. These are the models and actresses on the cover of those women’s magazines. The cover entices you by the dreams of wearing what they wear, trying the makeup, and the like. So should you buy it? Or better yet, should a crossdresser subscribe to a women’s magazine? Read More
I spend time daily reading the online forums on crossdressers.com. In my opinion, I think the participants fall into two categories: those who are confident with their crossdressing, and those who are not. I think most participants are those who are less confident. The site is a terrific resource for building crossdressing confidence, because those who are insecure can learn so much from the advice of those who have become at ease with their crossdressing.
One of the most feminizing articles of clothing for a crossdresser is a corset. It gives you unbelievable curves, enhances your bustline, and even narrows your waistline after enough wear. This article will help you with the sometimes confusing process of selecting a corset for yourself. Read More