Comments on: The Urge to Crossdress is Like a Beach Ball Under Water

By: Bobbie Jo

Bobbie Jo — Mon, 24 Oct 2022 18:52:39 +0000

In reply to rich. Fantastic article. Thoroughly enjoyed reading this, totally related to the points made.. personally I have purged several times just to start over again from scratch! equal parts costly just as much as it is frustrating With the back and forth & internal turmoil!

By: Emma White

Emma White — Sat, 22 Oct 2022 10:12:58 +0000

Hi all, reading all the comment’s is like reading my own life story. I’ve done the “purge” at least 6 or 7 times over the years. Only to buy everything back again.
Mine includes toys as well. When I’m in fem mode I’m fully a woman and want to be the woman so to speak.
On the outside I’m a masculine man with a very masculine life. But on the inside and in private I’m a very feminine woman.
The two never cross in public and my partner has absolutely no idea as my friends don’t either.
Every time I promise myself this time will be the last time, to only have that beach ball re surface again. I’ve spent 35 years of my life this way. My only wish would be to live in a world where embracing your feminine side isn’t taboo or frowned upon. Where you don’t get sneers and judgment and everyone could just be who ever they wanted to be.
Emma xx

By: rich manfre

rich manfre — Sun, 22 May 2022 22:08:06 +0000

great article. there are times when i want to stop. but then i crave to wear the high heels and a dress.
paint my nails and put on lipstick. iam trying to accept it and just relax . it feels really good when i dress up. iam not ashamed ,just dont understand the why of it. i guess like you say it is a part of me.. i enjoy my fem side when i dress. but i still am confused about it all.
rich

By: Sami

Sami — Thu, 19 May 2022 06:24:44 +0000

In reply to rich. I have found that trying to control it is the wrong approach. It is what it is, and once we accept that, life becomes much easier and more pleasant.

By: rich

rich — Sun, 24 Apr 2022 01:06:29 +0000

beach ball is right smack on. i have tried just throwing everything out and guess what. i just bought everything again. i just need to control it and do it in moderation. sometimes it seems to take over and control me. working on that . my fem side is pretty dominant at times

By: Dave

Dave — Thu, 13 May 2021 03:08:14 +0000

Ball under water is perfectly puts it. I been crossdressing over 40 years and open publicly in the late 1990s. By 2010 everyone knew in some shape or form of my CDing.

I have a wife that knew I crossdress way before we became serious at dating. Married for 27 years now